The Gay Sex Therapist | Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST

Discover. Unlock. Embrace.
the Sex Life your Queer Self Deserves

Gay, queer, trans, and BIPOC-affirming sex therapy with Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST — a gay, Korean American sex therapist who understands your world. No shame, no judgment, no heteronormativity. Just real, genuine, compassionate expert support & care.

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4
States Licensed
AASECT
Certified Sex Therapist
CA
LPCC · WA · NY · OR
Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LH60684311 (WA), 015648 (NY)) · Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC#4340 (CA)) · Licensed Professional Counselor (C8199 (OR)) · AASECT Certified Sex Therapist The Gay Sex Therapist is a registered fictitious business name (FBN) of Rainbow Connection Professional Clinical Counselor Service PC
Intentional & Inclusive From the Start

Therapy that's
intentionally inclusive & affirming.

Gay, bi, queer, trans, & gender diverse men face a distinct psychological landscape — internalized shame, discrimination, isolation, cultural misunderstandings, community pressures, kinks, fetishes, relationships that don't fit conventional molds, and the long shadow of stigma. Most therapy simply wasn't designed with them in mind.

As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I offer a space where nothing is off-limits — where your desires, your history, and your full humanity are welcomed, understood, and embraced.

Whether you're working through shame, navigating a relationship, or building a stronger connection to your own sexuality — you belong here.

Services

What
I offer.

All services provided by Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPCC, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist licensed in California, Washington, New York, and Oregon. Available via secure telehealth across all four states.

Individual

Sex Therapy

Explore sexual concerns, desires, and patterns in a private, nonjudgmental space. Grounded in evidence-based, AASECT-certified approaches tailored to gay men.

Relationships

Couples/Partners Therapy

For gay couples and non-traditional structures — desire discrepancy, open relationships, intimacy, communication, and reconnection.

Sexual Shame Work

Sexual Shame

Dismantling internalized homophobia, religious trauma, and shame-based narratives so you can live and love without invisible chains.

Identity & Coming Out

Coming Out Work

Support at any stage — to yourself, family, workplace, community. Processing grief, complexity, and the freedom of living authentically.

Sexual Wellness

Understanding your sexuality

Non-pathologizing, gay-affirmative support around compulsive behavior, app use, and building a relationship with sex that's not pathologizing.

Expertise

Trusted Guidance and Care

Explore your kinks, fetishes, desires, questions, and concerns in a safe, compassionate, and judgement free space with a certified sex therapist

The Process

How it
works.

Getting started in therapy takes courage. Here's exactly what to expect so nothing catches you off guard.

1

Free Consult Call

A 20-minute call to share what's on your mind, ask questions, and see how we connect. Zero pressure.

2

Intake Session

Your first full session explores your history and goals. We figure out what "better" actually means for you and build the map together.

3

Ongoing Therapy

Sessions conveniently offered through secure telehealth — using evidence-based, affirming methods dialed to your goals from wherever you feel the most comfortable.

4

Progress & Closure

We track your growth, adapt the approach as you evolve, and close when you're ready. The timeline is always yours to drive.

[Your Name], LPCC — The Gay Sex Therapist
About

Hi,
I'm Harry.

I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC#4340) specializing in sexual health and mental well-being for gay, bi, straight, trans, gender diverse and queer men. I built my practice because most therapy spaces weren't designed with us in mind.

My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely queer-centered. I don't pathologize desire. I don't flinch at complexity. I work with you as a whole person — including the parts you've been told to keep quiet.

I completed my Masters in Counseling from the University of San Diego and hold licensure across California, Washington, New York, and Oregon, with specialized certification in sex therapy through Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) and AASECT.

California LPCC #4340
Washington LMHC #LH60684311
New York LMHC #015648
Oregon Licensed Counselor #C8199
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist  
Work With Me

Ready to take
the first step?

Free 20-minute consult · No commitment · Telehealth in CA, WA, NY & OR

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FAQ

Common
questions.

Do I have to be gay to work with you?

No — this practice is built for gay men and the LGBTQ+ community broadly, but all who feels at home in this space are welcome.

What states do you work with clients in?

I am licensed for telehealth in California (LPCC #4340), Washington (LMHC #LH60684311), New York (LMHC #015648), and Oregon (Licensed Counselor #C8199).

Is sex therapy just talking about sex?

Sex therapy is talk therapy focused on sexual and relational well-being. Sessions never involve physical touch. We work through concerns, patterns, and goals entirely in therapeutic, professional conversation.

Do you accept insurance?

I am an in network with Cigna only. For all other plans, I am an out-of-network provider. I provide superbills for potential reimbursement through your insurance. Fee information is available upon request or at first contact.

What does AASECT Certified mean?

AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) certification is the gold standard in sex therapy. It requires specialized supervised training, education hours, and adherence to a professional code of ethics specifically in human sexuality.

I've had bad therapy experiences before. Why would this be different?

That's worth raising directly — and I welcome it. Many gay men have encountered therapy that felt clinical, misaligned, or quietly judgmental. This practice was built differently from the start.

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Let's connect.

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