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Gay Sex Therapy · Online in CA, WA, NY & OR
Gay, queer, trans, and BIPOC-affirming sex therapy with Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST — a gay, Korean American sex therapist who understands your world. No shame, no judgment, no heteronormativity. Just real, genuine, compassionate expert support & care.
Sex Therapy that's
intentionally inclusive & affirming.
Gay, bi, queer, trans, & gender diverse men face a distinct psychological landscape — internalized shame, discrimination, isolation, cultural misunderstandings, community pressures, kinks, fetishes, relationships that don't fit conventional molds, and the long shadow of stigma. Most therapy simply wasn't designed with them in mind. This practice is different. This practice was built to be a safe and welcoming place for the queer community to explore sexual concerns
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I offer a space where nothing is off-limits — where your desires, your history, and your full humanity are welcomed, understood, and embraced.
Whether you're working through shame, navigating a relationship, or building a stronger connection to your own sexuality — you belong here.
What I offer.
All services provided by Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist licensed in California, Washington, New York, and Oregon. Available via secure telehealth across all four states.
Sex Therapy
Couples/Partners Therapy
Sexual Shame
Coming Out Work
Understanding your sexuality
Trusted Guidance and Care
A sex therapist who's gay & Asian.
Sex is hard enough to talk about. It's harder when you also have to explain your family, your culture, and why "just come out" or "just set a boundary" doesn't fit. As a gay, Korean American son of immigrants, I bring a unique understanding of how culture and sexuality intersect so you don't have to spell it out. We can dive right in.
Not Asian or gay? All are welcome here.
Less explaining, more real work
You won't spend your first sessions translating your family, your culture, or your sex life. We can start where you actually are.
All of you, in the same room
You don't have to choose which part of you shows up, or code-switch between your queer self and your Asian self. Here, both get to be in the room at once.
Shame, silence & saving face
Many of us grew up where sex was never named and family honor came first. I understand how that silence follows you into the bedroom, and how stereotypes about Asian men pile on top of it.
Culture & Identity front and center
Your culture and identity aren't side notes to your sex life. They shaped how you learned about desire, love, and family. We work with your values, not against them, including whether, when, and how to come out.
Hi, I'm Harry Dixon, MA, LMHC, LPCC, LPC, CST.
I'm an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC#4340) specializing in sexual health and mental well-being for gay, bi, straight, trans, gender diverse and queer men. I built my practice because most therapy spaces weren't designed with us in mind.
My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely queer-centered. I don't pathologize desire. I don't flinch at complexity. I work with you as a whole person — including the parts you've been told to keep quiet.
I completed my Masters in Counseling from the University of San Diego and hold licensure across California, Washington, New York, and Oregon, with specialized certification in sex therapy through Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) and AASECT.
Ready to take the first step?
Free 15-minute consult · No commitment · Telehealth in CA, WA, NY & OR
Common questions.
Do I have to be gay or BIPOC to work with you?
What states do you work with clients in?
Is sex therapy just talking about sex?
Do you accept insurance?
What does AASECT Certified mean?
I've had bad therapy experiences before. Why would this be different?
Let's connect.
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