Hi, I’m Harry, And I’m the gay sex therapist!
I’m a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Therapist & a Mental Health Counselor (WA, LH60684311; CA, LPCC#4340; NY, 015648; OR, C8122) with a passion for helping gay men and the LGBTQ+ community unlock and achieve satisfaction, passion, and pleasure in their sex lives.
Growing up in a conservative, religious, Korean American home as well as attending a evangelical conservative Christian K-12 school, I received very little sex education other than abstinence only and shame based lessons around sex. There also was no discussion on homosexuality or LGBTQ+ life other than discrimination and intolerance against those communities.
When I came out in my mid-twenties after doing a lot of work to accept my sexuality and who I was, I was at such a disadvantage due to my upbringing. I didn’t have anyone that I could trust to talk to or educate me on gay sex or gay life.
This aligned with my original mantra for becoming a therapist to BIPOC folks who like me grew up in families that didn’t understand mental illness due to culture and language barriers. That mantra being:
EVERYONE DESERVES A PLACE WHERE THEY FEEL THEY BELONG AND ARE ACCEPTED
That is my promise you and every client who comes to me.
No matter your background or identity, you deserve to be heard, loved, and accepted. You deserve a place to ask tough, scary questions like, “Is this kink/fetish too weird?” or “I’m afraid my dick is too small” or “how do I talk to my partner about nonmonogamy?”
LET’S TALK. LET’S EXPLORE. LET’S FIGURE IT OUT TOGETHER.
