Gay & LBGTQ+ Sex Therapy in CA, NY, OR, & WA*

*Services offered via telehealth to clients residing in CA, OR, and/or WA at time of service through Rainbow Connection Counseling Collective

i’m The gay sex therapist

Portrait of Harry Dixon

I’m Harry Dixon, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (015648; LH60684311) in New York & Washington, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California (LPCC#4340), a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oregon (C8122).

I am a gay, Korean American cis man, and my passion and expertise is in helping gay, queer, trans, Asian American and BIPOC folx experience better sex and mental health.

If you’re experiencing erectile dysfunction, penis envy, penis shame, genitalia shame, sexual guilt or shame, gender identity, sexual identity, kink and fetish questions, nonmonogamy questioning, or out of control sexual behaviors, I’m here to help

No matter where you are or how you feel about your sex life, you deserve someone who can help you explore, discover, and embrace a sex life that is accepting, shame free, and most importantly fun and fulfilling!

Let’s partner together in finding healthy, exciting, and fun ways to address your insecurities, find answers, challenge and replace shame narratives, and find acceptance and love for your sexy self.

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If you struggle with sexual shame and guilt. If you are afraid to talk about the things that turn you on. If you struggle to communicate your sexual needs and desires with others. If you are worried that what arouses you might be a little too freaky? If you are worried about your genitals and if they are functioning as they should.

I’m here to help!

Compassionate and judgement free Guidance

Talking about sex is awkward as hell! And that’s ok! I love talking about sex, and I provide a space that is accessible, safe, compassionate, and most importantly, free of judgement. Let’s go and explore the spaces that are scary together, and see what we can find. Let’s unlock the fullest sexual pleasure that you deserve!

Cultural compentence and expertise

Odds are if you’re queer and you’re here, you didn’t get quality sex education. The sex education you received was probably heteronormative, focused on procreation, influenced by abstinence only approaches, and didn’t really apply to your queer self.

I’m here to help. With my years of experience and earned wisdom working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as being a gay man, I know the unique sexual needs of the gay and LGBTQ+ communities. I’ll teach you the things you wish you had learned in sex ed.

unique and individualized treatment approaches that work

Every body, every person, every mind is unique and special. We’ll take time to learn about your sexual, mental health, physical, cultural and ethnic history to better understand who you are and the sex narratives that you hold. Once we understand that, we can create a treatment plan that is unique and effective in helping you have better sex.

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